'I'm not going to become a vegan': Woman repeatedly preaches veganism to her roommates, they confront her, she loses it

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    Font - AITA for telling my vegan roommate no one cares about her documentaries? I (18M) am living in shared accommodations with (18F) and 3 other people for college. We all have our own rooms but share the kitchen and living area. I will call my vegan roommate Sarah for the purpose of this post.
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    Font - I'm totally fine with veganism and Sarah is nice enough. When we first moved in she asked if she could have the top fridge shelf and to keep it vegan, and to not use her cooking things without asking and to only use it to make things like vegetables to avoid cross contamination. This isn't an issue and I respect her choices. However
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    Font - as the weeks have went on it seems like she is subtly trying to convert the flat, for example by sending everyone various documentaries on WhatsApp and suggesting we watch them whenever we do movie night, at first it was fine but at this point it's honestly annoying and more than just me feels this way. Also, she is rather judgemental and will leave any room someone is eating meat in
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    Font - Well last night I confronted her and essentially told her I'm not going to become a vegan, that I don't care about the documentaries and that she's coming across as pushy. She got upset and I'm wondering if I was too harsh.
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    Rectangle - AITA? Edit: was told to include that I did tell her I wasn't interested over text first when she initially sent the documentaries
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    Font - okIhaveANopinionHERE. 17 hr. ago NTA- The reason so many despise vegan's isn't usually because they don't eat meat, it's because so many of them tend to be so Opreachy like your roommate.
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    Font - Ignoring it won't make the problem go away, so the way I see it is that you have two ways to shut this down: 1) keep telling her to knock it off and that no one cares, or 2) watch a documentary with her, specifically one in which they show animals being slaughtered, and make sure to say at the end: Wow, I really need a cheeseburger right now.
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    Font - Number 1 is the nice way, number 2 would make you an but it can be a lot more fun. 3.8k Reply Share
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    Font - LowBalance4404 17 hr. ago . NTA and she is the poster child for why people avoid vegans. ↑ 1.1k Reply Share
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    Font - SlippySloppyToad. 17 hr. ago ΝΤΑ This behavior is obnoxious and politely telling her to stop is justified. She would almost certainly object extremely strongly were the shoe on the other foot (e.g. you sending her videos of barbeque or something). 542 Reply Share
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    Font - Careless-Ability-748 17 hr. ago Nta she's leaving the room when someone is eating meat. Her behavior is over the top. 272 Reply Share
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    Font - rustyshackleford 1824 17 hr. ago For vegans they always beef with have everyone NTA 246 Reply Share
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    Font - Additional Country33. 17 hr. ago She should move into an all vegan household NTA 4 135 Reply Share
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    Font - CheckIntelligent7828. 16 hr. ago ΝΤΑ No one wants to live with an evangelist. Doesn't matter if they're stumping for religion, veganism, a politician, or the benefits of using hemp over cotton. If she does it again I would tell her you didn't sign up to be preached to and if she feels so passionately about it she should move into an all vegan household. 125 Reply Share
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    Font - Pineapple-Maniac 17 hr. ago NTA - she comes off as lowkey passive- agressive. But i can't reslly judge you since the way you said it and the wording could make a huge difference
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    Font - Baboon Stew. 17 hr. ago. edited 16 hr. ago NTA. If you wanted to know more about being vegan, you would have asked. Her evangelizing is going over the top. Next time you see her, ask if she wants to watch some of Ted Nugent's hunting shows.
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    Font - Ok_Yesterday_6214. 17 hr. ago NTA, it's not an issues of you hating or not accommodating her. Itsy an issues of her preaching veganism. She should stop
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    Font - 2workigo. 17 hr. ago NTA. Sometimes we just have to be told when we're being we've gone too far. or that
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    Font - ParsimoniousSalad. 17 hr. ago Nope, you told her how you felt. Doesn't seem like you overstated it or were too harsh. ΝΤΑ

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